Relationships That Put Us In An Emotional Coma

Have you ever been in a relationship in an emotional coma? The ones that hold us back, that don’t go backwards or forwards. Relationships that destroy us inside and out.

This type of bond ends you because it puts you in a state in which you can’t move. It’s like everything stops in your life while you wait for something that will never happen.

We don’t know how important it is to be assertive at these times. Being aware of what we deserve, valuing ourselves and not fearing to leave the other person.

Saying goodbye, letting go, ending a relationship is, in many cases, a situation where fear takes over. But why?

Accepting relationships in an emotional coma

No one forces us to dive into a relationship, but one way or another we end up accepting a situation that’s brewing until it’s impossible to go back.

Want to know what types of comatose relationships you might encounter?

Are we a couple or friends?

Fear and bad experiences sometimes make it difficult to speak clearly in a relationship. This raises doubts for not knowing what is happening, and not knowing how to act or proceed about it.

It is not a question of labels, but of  knowing what is going on in order to act correctly.  

I can not live without you

Emotional dependence is one of the serious problems of our time.

Today we are anxiously looking  for someone to guarantee that we are not alone, that there is always someone waiting for us, loving us, making us happy.

I don’t want to be with you, but custom prevents me from leaving you

Many long-term relationships exist even if the couple no longer desires each other as a couple.

This is because they are “used” to being together and are afraid of “independence” in some way. This prevents them from moving forward.

Relationships that leave us in an emotional coma

The three situations described above are real cases. Circumstances in which we have no progress, either out of fear or doubt.

The first situation is one of the most important. For a relationship, whatever it is, the worst of circumstances is the doubt of not knowing what it is.

• If we don’t know if we are a couple or if we are just friends, how do we act? Communication is very important, but in this type of relationship in a coma, one of the two is afraid. 

Is it some wound from the past, or simply the intentions are different.

Unfortunately, one of the two ends up hurt due to illusions created about a false relationship that will likely never go anywhere.

• In the second situation, one of the most dangerous,  our happiness is in charge of the other person. Maybe it’s one of the most difficult relationships to get out of.

The problem is not the relationship itself, but how we interact with the partner. A dependency that arises due to emotional needs, fears and traumas.

Depending on one person is the worst thing that can happen to you. You will have no advancement and will disappear into destructive relationships that try to fill a need. Yours.

Sometimes you will confuse love with need.

learn to let go

It’s  a constant in all relationships: the fear of letting go. The fear of letting go and not allowing ourselves to go on without that person.

This happens even in relationships where there is doubt about what kind of relationship we have, because there is an illusion, a hope of one of the two partners that it is “something”.

But, above all, this situation manifests itself in all long-term relationships where custom “prevents” them from having separate lives.

Without a doubt, comatose relationships keep us in a state where  it is not allowed to find someone to be really happy with.

Letting go, for us, is still difficult, and as we get older it becomes even more complicated. The fear of loneliness, of not meeting anyone, leads us to conform.

Have you ever been involved in a relationship in an emotional coma?

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