Surround Yourself With Interesting People And Stay Away From Self-interested People

The emotions of others are contagious. Therefore, whether we like it or not, the people around us will influence us. Certainly you have a lot of interesting people in your life, but there are also interested people who will try to be part of your daily life (if they don’t already).

It is true that there are many situations in our lives in which it will not be possible to choose between interesting or self-interested people.

Work, our own family or any other circumstance can affect the people around us. However, we can choose and, in our hands, is the power to make good or bad choices.

I want interesting people in my life

Interesting people enrich your life, fill it, make it brighter. They are great energy givers who always contribute positively with their emotions and intellectual demands.

We will always want to have interesting people on our side. So, if you want to know if you are currently surrounded by people like that, here are some characteristics that are usually present in them:

• They convey very positive emotions and in bad times they are by your side to always give you a smile. Always without judgment and without intruding more than necessary.
• They allow you to grow as a person, help you understand everything you cannot see at first glance, and enrich you with a diversity of points of view.
• Like all of us, they don’t know everything either, but they are willing to explore new things together with you. His awakened and curious mind infects us with positivity and willingness to explore new options.

• With their good deeds and their way of being they manage to bring out the best in us, and make us always the best version of ourselves.

If you are able to associate people present in your life with each of the points mentioned, excellent! You find yourself surrounded by very interesting people who have a lot to offer in your life.

This is very positive and these are the people who should always be around you to offer light and infect others with their joy.

Run away from self-interested people

Self-interested people move, as the word already says, out of interest and, instead of offering positivity to their life, they will do exactly the opposite and fill it with negativity.

It is clear that, to some extent, we are all self-interested people. The fact that we want to be surrounded by interesting people makes us self-interested.

However, the people who approach you wanting something without giving anything in return are the most negative, as they will steal your energy and it will not benefit you.

Self-interested people also have their own characteristics and, although they are more difficult to identify, they can be recognized by the following traits:

• They behave like emotional vampires. Any conversation with them will exhaust us and we will feel that we have had the energy robbed simply by having them by our side.
• They never agree with everything they get and always demand more. They don’t care about the sacrifices of others; it will never be enough and they will say it clearly.

• They never commit to relationships and are never willing to give more than necessary. For all that, the bonds lose affection and turn into relationships of interest.
• They are great experts at making us feel guilty or responsible for actions or circumstances in which we don’t even participate.

Conclusion

Are these bad people? Certainly not. The problem is that they don’t know how to relate in any other way and that has consequences for others.

To prevent us from becoming their “subjects” we have to identify them and impose limits on them. Only then will we prevent them from affecting our way of acting.

Escape from all those people who try to hurt, manipulate and continually infect you with your negative emotions and feelings.

Do exactly the opposite and, if you can choose, surround yourself with people who offer light and positivity. People who make you feel good and who know how to recognize your mistakes.

Lastly, it is very important that you try to become an interesting person. A person who vibrates, who transmits good feelings, who smiles and who is able to establish healthy relationships.